“EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON”
How true this phrase seems in our lives. We wish something but something else is what we achieve and may be that is what is called destiny. We strive hard to achieve our goals but sometimes our numerous attempts to achieve it fail and we land up doing something else. Only then we realize that this was what I wanted to do and destiny brings us there. It’s that then we realize and feel that “It’s good that our attempts failed or else I wouldn’t have been here.” The same thing happened in the case of a girl named Divya. She was born and brought up in a middle class family. She was a very hard working and intelligent girl but her hard work was never paid. She always got failures in her life. She completed her schooling with a good percentage though not up to her expectations and capabilities. She wished to become a doctor and strived very hard for it but her attempts failed and as a girl belonging to middle classed family couldn’t afford for a payment seat and so changed her career. She took up graduation and was very happy with the career change. She felt being a doctor was not her cup of tea once she started her graduation studies. She was very happy and wished to continue her further studies in the same field but her attempts to get into a good university for her post graduation failed. She was into depression thinking life had never been kind to her, never shown what happiness is but then life doesn’t stop and we also have to move along with it. Unwillingly she had to change her career again. Every time she planned a career change she kept explaining herself that the destiny takes you where ever you are destined to be how much ever you try to achieve something else which may interest you. She took up MBA and topped her university. It was then that she felt very happy may she had been so happy after a long time in her life. She was satisfied that her career shift had brought her immense happiness. She then thanked herself for the explanations she kept giving herself when ever she planned something she had no interest in. She had learnt to take life as it comes and feel happy in what ever she did. She made a job in a good software company who paid her well though she had no software background but had done her MBA. She had no regrets in life though she never wanted to follow the rat race of joining a software company but finally landed up doing the same. She was satisfied that she earned a great salary for herself though she never had the job satisfaction. This was the story of her career moves. In her company she met a guy who with his words made her believe that he was the one for her. She was in deep love with that guy. Being in love and being loved by the same person was a great feeling altogether for her. But the guy never felt the same for her and had always put up an act in front of her which she could never understand. Having met many failures in life she no more wanted any more failures but her life had some other plans for her. She felt that as the biggest failure in her life. She was lost completely. She was very lucky to have such great parents who supported her and never planned for her marriage once she had experienced failure in her attempts to choose a guy for herself. She slowly recovered from her depression. She left the decision of choosing a life partner for her to her parents. They soon selected a guy for her but left the decision to her whether she wanted him as her life partner or not. She arranged a meeting with him and decided to tell him all that had happened in her life as the relationship between a husband and wife always stands on understanding each other and accepting each other as they are. The guy was ready to accept her even after knowing her past and soon they got married. This was Divya’s life till now. She had to adjust for many things in her life, had to compromise on many things but finally everything that happened in her life had brought her success and happiness. Still in any situation where she has to change or do something which she never wants to do she moves on in life thinking “Everything that happens, happens for a reason”
SNEHA NAIK
How true this phrase seems in our lives. We wish something but something else is what we achieve and may be that is what is called destiny. We strive hard to achieve our goals but sometimes our numerous attempts to achieve it fail and we land up doing something else. Only then we realize that this was what I wanted to do and destiny brings us there. It’s that then we realize and feel that “It’s good that our attempts failed or else I wouldn’t have been here.” The same thing happened in the case of a girl named Divya. She was born and brought up in a middle class family. She was a very hard working and intelligent girl but her hard work was never paid. She always got failures in her life. She completed her schooling with a good percentage though not up to her expectations and capabilities. She wished to become a doctor and strived very hard for it but her attempts failed and as a girl belonging to middle classed family couldn’t afford for a payment seat and so changed her career. She took up graduation and was very happy with the career change. She felt being a doctor was not her cup of tea once she started her graduation studies. She was very happy and wished to continue her further studies in the same field but her attempts to get into a good university for her post graduation failed. She was into depression thinking life had never been kind to her, never shown what happiness is but then life doesn’t stop and we also have to move along with it. Unwillingly she had to change her career again. Every time she planned a career change she kept explaining herself that the destiny takes you where ever you are destined to be how much ever you try to achieve something else which may interest you. She took up MBA and topped her university. It was then that she felt very happy may she had been so happy after a long time in her life. She was satisfied that her career shift had brought her immense happiness. She then thanked herself for the explanations she kept giving herself when ever she planned something she had no interest in. She had learnt to take life as it comes and feel happy in what ever she did. She made a job in a good software company who paid her well though she had no software background but had done her MBA. She had no regrets in life though she never wanted to follow the rat race of joining a software company but finally landed up doing the same. She was satisfied that she earned a great salary for herself though she never had the job satisfaction. This was the story of her career moves. In her company she met a guy who with his words made her believe that he was the one for her. She was in deep love with that guy. Being in love and being loved by the same person was a great feeling altogether for her. But the guy never felt the same for her and had always put up an act in front of her which she could never understand. Having met many failures in life she no more wanted any more failures but her life had some other plans for her. She felt that as the biggest failure in her life. She was lost completely. She was very lucky to have such great parents who supported her and never planned for her marriage once she had experienced failure in her attempts to choose a guy for herself. She slowly recovered from her depression. She left the decision of choosing a life partner for her to her parents. They soon selected a guy for her but left the decision to her whether she wanted him as her life partner or not. She arranged a meeting with him and decided to tell him all that had happened in her life as the relationship between a husband and wife always stands on understanding each other and accepting each other as they are. The guy was ready to accept her even after knowing her past and soon they got married. This was Divya’s life till now. She had to adjust for many things in her life, had to compromise on many things but finally everything that happened in her life had brought her success and happiness. Still in any situation where she has to change or do something which she never wants to do she moves on in life thinking “Everything that happens, happens for a reason”
SNEHA NAIK
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